The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy_ How to Have Incredible Sex with Role Play, Sex Games, Erotic Massage, BDSM and More

INTRODUCTION :

Sexual fantasy is one of our great cultural obsessions—it is the mirror of desire, reflecting our own, and our lovers’, faces. Books devoted to fantasies fly off the shelves of bookstores, encouraging our hunger for more. More fantasy, variety, something different; more unusual, bizarre, and titillating sexual daydreams; more ideas for shared sex play. We want our sex lives to be exciting and diverse, and we want to be electrified, shocked, intrigued, and stimulated by new and unusual ideas for sex.

The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy is for the thousands and thousands of women and men who want their sex lives to be an ever-changing menu of intimate daily specials. We all dream of making our fantasies come true—or at least making them vivid and heart-stopping, like a sexual thrill ride. Few of us tire of wanting to know our lovers’ fantasies, and we continually quest to satisfy them.

I know this is true—because I’ve spoken to an endless stream of customers who visit the women-run sex toy store where I work. They want to know how to make coupled sex hotter and seek practical inspiration for spicing up their routine. It seems like everyone wants something hotter, newer, more arousing, more inspiring

Up until recently, the problem was, we’d all read those old books of sexual fantasies, you know, those “tell-all” collections of “private therapy sessions” (yeah, right) and stories with tiresome moralistic or negative endings. Those books never were really supportive of threesomes, bisexuality, fetishes, or any but the most tame role-playing scenario. 

With the intention of avoiding the moralistic, dated style of heterosexual fantasy books and tapping into the high quality and adventurousness typically found in more current erotica, I edited Sweet Life: Erotic Fantasies for Couples and Taboo: Forbidden Fantasies for Couples. I wanted to give these adventurous, loving couples—and singles—more to take to bed, so to speak. Every single fantasy in those books could realistically be replicated at home—or in the car, under the desk, at the restaurant…. The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy provides the “how-to” part of that equation. This guide explains how to make any sexual fantasy you can imagine come true. Here you’ll find a huge wealth of practical ideas and real advice about sexual fetishes and fantasies. You’ll find step-by-step instruction in fantasy negotiation and planning, roleplaying, lap-dancing, stripping, S/M techniques, and more. You’ll find examples of hundreds of fantasy roles and characters, and a complete guide to resources to help you find costumes, accessories, props, and toys. There’s advice for introducing new ideas—no matter how silly or small, or profound and lifechanging—into your shared sex life, as well as advice for coping with difficult or troubling fantasies.

With this guide, you will find out how to incorporate new sex acts, positions, sex in public, or edgy encounters—–safely and pleasurably. Learn how to enjoy anal sex, deep throat, orgasms from penetration, or change the way you come, all by blending fantasy with your regular masturbation routines. Keep fantasies in your bedroom but make them authentic and realistic with the right details, props, and clothing. Take your fantasies out into the world: Have a threesome, an orgy, go to a sex party, try swinging, go to a strip club, visit a call girl or prostitute, or a dominatrix. Make your own porn, take erotic photos, or use the Internet in dozens of delightfully devious ways. 

Here, you’ll read how role-play can be fun, and hot, and not as goofy to try as you may think. If you already enjoy role-play you can take it to the limits of ecstasy. Overcome shyness and learn to talk dirty, strip, perform a lap dance, give your lover phone sex, or an erotic massage. If S/M and kinky play sound exciting, learn all the things you can do with BDSM in a kinky context, and for once, walk away from a book with concrete ideas about what to do as a dominant, submissive, or captive; what to do with someone all tied up—or simply how to ask for a spanking. Do you or does your lover have a fetish for feet, panties, uniforms, rubber—or something more exotic? Learn how to make fetish and sex work together to become a sex toy hotter and more reliable than one anything you can buy in a store. And there is a huge resource list in Chapter 13 to keep you moving, get you going, experimenting, and finding the things that turn you on the most. The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasy is a warm welcome to the world of fantasy fulfillment. May you—and your partners—continue changing and loving and experimenting, and may all your erotic dreams come true.

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